With the Exception ...

In regard to my last post "The Great Pretender", here is where I take exception to some of what I am learning from C. Terry Warner's book.  Forgiving is one step but more work needs to be done.  People who have been abused are traumatized; their DNA code is altered.  Often they revisit a destructive relationship to figure out what does not work.  Until the adult ego can develop, choices can be harmful. 

When I find myself experiencing the same negative results over and over within a relationship, a red light should flash:  Stop; caution!  Walk away.